Or: Sexual Coercion for Dummies.
This is how a rapist thinks. A girl who turns down your sexual advances is not a fucking Rubik’s cube. She’s a human being with agency, not a means to your sexual ends. PUAs seem to operate under the assumption that the first several “no”s are insincere and are due to a woman’s fear of tarnishing her reputation. First of all, that’s an incredibly shaky assumption to make and then act on. Second of all, and maybe more importantly, is that her motives for denying sex are irrelevant. You can agonoize all you want over the sincerity of “no”, but regardless of her reasons for saying “no”, her “no” should always, ALWAYS be respected.
This is true of everybody. Just learn to treat people like people. Fuck. That should be obvious.
